The family structure ideally should comprise of the husband, wife, and children. In order for a household to run efficiently each family member must know and express their individual roles. It is important to note first that you must choose your spouse with much thought. Meaning if you don’t trust the decisions your husband makes he may not be a good fit. Why? A man’s responsibility is to make the best decision for the family. If he does not have the qualities of a good decision maker you may end up taking on this role which wasn’t meant for you. If you take on this role there isn’t much left for your husband to do and you may also neglect some portions of your role. Thus a husband’s job is to take care of his wife, and a wife’s job is to take care of her husband, and together they take care of their children. Specifically as a wife and a mother my role is to nurture, be the emotional support, and stand behind my husband. I trust that he will make the best decisions for our family. So there is no confusion on who does what. Consequently ladies if you have a man man allow him to take care of his responsibilities so that you can take care of yours.